"The most self-destructive thought that any person can have is thinking that he or she is not in total control of his or her life. That's when, 'Why me?' becomes a theme song." — Roger Dawson
You always have a choice to live your life from the perspective of trust and gratitude — or from fear and doubt. The pendulum of life forever swings alternate ways, so your perspective is simply an illusion of truth which you can control. Your happiness hinges on whether you are negative and drained, complaining about constant problems — or empowered and positive, thankful for the perfection of your life.
"If you are pained by external things, it is not they that disturb you, but your own judgment of them. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now." — Marcus Aurelius
Living in doubt, fear, and concern stems from your own judgment that something is not perfect. You feel fear, insecurity, worry, indecision, stress, and even confusion. This judgment says that something is a problem or a burden — is either good or bad — and then conditions you to continue to always expect the worst. Ironically, your judgment is never based on your actual expertise to make that judgment though.
"Out of clutter, find Simplicity. From discord, find Harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity." — Albert Einstein
Even though some experience or person initially "planted" an idea with you, look for the advantages of, opportunities from, and lessons to be learned from all negative experiences. Consider how many disasters turned out alright, and some even became blessings. You must become aware of your perspectives in order to adjust it.
"When it is dark enough, you can see the stars." — Charles Beard
Without problems to solve, life would be unfulfilling, boring, dull, and empty. They're interesting, challenging, focusing, and energizing. You become motivated to grow and change. Do not let your natural need for excitement develop anger about someone or something simply for the drama.
"When you arrive at your future, will you blame your past?" — Robert Half
Living in trust and gratitude feels good, secure, hopeful, and liberating. You are relaxed, confident, and empowered. It encourages possibilities, understanding, tolerance, solutions, growth, and opportunities without limitations. Concentrate on what you have — not what you're missing. Develop a vision of your life that you can get excited about instead of staying stuck in the past or continuing non-productive habits. Look at and appreciate every moment of life's journey so that your peace and happiness is never dependent on any external event (good or bad).
"...focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it." — Greg Anderson
Enjoy life now — it has an expiration date!
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