Hopefully you've learned that you can't control other people — as troubling as their choices and behavior might be. At best, you can only control your own mind, body, and life. If you find it hard not to impose your will on others, consider that the desire to control others is driven by insecurity, envy, fear, or the need for power. Think about YOUR motives and put your energy into changing yourself.
But if you feel that you simply want to prevent another adult from making a mistake, accept that it's not your job. Everyone has to make their own mistakes to learn the lessons. You can't learn it for them. And, you honestly don't have the right to take that responsibility for that learning away from them.
Fortunately, you do have a very powerful way to influence others though — be a role model. Setting a good example, making wise choices, and exhibiting the behavior you wish in others can be truly empowering. Become an inspiration for someone instead of being demanding and judgmental.
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